Are there going to be anymore sub/Dom nights?
It’s just more comfortable having others around specifically for the same sort of thing.
My Dom and I really really hope there’s more theme nights like that
Steam1 is really going downhill recently. Club is being ruined by gangs of East Indian men.
I am not against having them there (I play with some of them) but they do not respect the rules and also do not respect general social norms regarding space.
Specifically:
-Blocking hallways and doorways with little regard to others (you have to push your way through to get them to move)
-Ogling female members. It is okay to look but not cool to see 10 guys staring with their eyes glued to a single female who is there by herself.
-Refusing to take no for an answer from female members. No means no the first time. They will ask repeatedly 4 times (like used car salesman) in hopes that she will change her mind.
-Overt blatant group stalking of male/female couples and especially of single females. The single female goes into a room and 10 guys go chasing after her. She does not even have time to catch her breath when they come storming into the room after her. It is okay to go check her out (that is what it is all about), but groups of men running after her as though the first one there gets the prize is not cool. They need to chill out.
-Shoving and pushing when there is a scene taking place. Not cool at all.
-Pushing too far into private guest room when there is a couple at play. I have seen couples literally having to shove men out and force the door closed to get rid of them.
-Stinky men who refuse to take a shower. Some body types may not appeal to one another depending on diet and race. That itself is not the issue. No one likes to smell body odour from someone’s armpits that has not showered for the day. There is no excuse for this. Showers, soap and towels are provided.
-Robin will introduce herself and give introductory warnings. As soon as she leaves the room the group misbehaves if the conditions are right. (Females or couples roaming about).
East Indians are not the only ones breaking club rules and social norms but they are 95 percent of the problem. This is not a racist rant but actual observations at the club on multiple occasions.
SUGGESTIONS:
Revise the club rules and post a large sign to make it very clear.
Ban people more often. Maybe different level of bans such as one month; two months; three months; six months or permanent ban. The length of the band would not be published but just depending on how the Club felt about the offender and if they repeated or not. Some bans are necessary to make an example because the warnings issued by Robin are falling on deaf ears. Make an announcement after someone is banned to let everyone know that actually it is not “anything goes.”
I appreciate your observations, We are here to provide a safe space for everyone and we do ban many people, if they don’t follow the rules.
We do go over rules with every member and have them posted in the outside and in the club and are diligent to addressing members concerns. Many members are on Fet Life and do look out for each other. We encourage people to come report any behavior that makes others uncomfortable. I’ve never not seen Robin address or my self as the manager not address behaviors that are predatory.We take them very serious.
We are seeing more and more new couples and we are going over safety, I worry when something starts with I’ am not rascist but!!
We all have a responsibility , I thank all our patrons that make an effort to come to the management with concerns. We app[erciate and thank them.
We are inclusive we do not vet for looks or age or ethnicities like some clubs might, just that everyone follows the rules.I do understand we can’t meet everyones excpetations and many leave frustrated because they are not included. I feel the best way is to talk to people and get to know them build relationships and gain trust.To say that the club is going down hill is I beleive unfair because it has only been our challenge to make sure every one respects boundaries. We have created Ladies night for over 18 months and started couples night over the last 12 months to provide mainly Women,Trans and crossdressers less of a male dominated space. So for you to say it has become worse is is untrue because we have created these days twice a month for that very reason.
As always please come to us Robin or myself .
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Is it usually an even mix of men and woman on happy hour??
no more on ladies nights and couples night.
Are there going to be anymore sub/Dom nights?
It’s just more comfortable having others around specifically for the same sort of thing.
My Dom and I really really hope there’s more theme nights like that
Hello
Steam1 is really going downhill recently. Club is being ruined by gangs of East Indian men.
I am not against having them there (I play with some of them) but they do not respect the rules and also do not respect general social norms regarding space.
Specifically:
-Blocking hallways and doorways with little regard to others (you have to push your way through to get them to move)
-Ogling female members. It is okay to look but not cool to see 10 guys staring with their eyes glued to a single female who is there by herself.
-Refusing to take no for an answer from female members. No means no the first time. They will ask repeatedly 4 times (like used car salesman) in hopes that she will change her mind.
-Overt blatant group stalking of male/female couples and especially of single females. The single female goes into a room and 10 guys go chasing after her. She does not even have time to catch her breath when they come storming into the room after her. It is okay to go check her out (that is what it is all about), but groups of men running after her as though the first one there gets the prize is not cool. They need to chill out.
-Shoving and pushing when there is a scene taking place. Not cool at all.
-Pushing too far into private guest room when there is a couple at play. I have seen couples literally having to shove men out and force the door closed to get rid of them.
-Stinky men who refuse to take a shower. Some body types may not appeal to one another depending on diet and race. That itself is not the issue. No one likes to smell body odour from someone’s armpits that has not showered for the day. There is no excuse for this. Showers, soap and towels are provided.
-Robin will introduce herself and give introductory warnings. As soon as she leaves the room the group misbehaves if the conditions are right. (Females or couples roaming about).
East Indians are not the only ones breaking club rules and social norms but they are 95 percent of the problem. This is not a racist rant but actual observations at the club on multiple occasions.
SUGGESTIONS:
Revise the club rules and post a large sign to make it very clear.
Ban people more often. Maybe different level of bans such as one month; two months; three months; six months or permanent ban. The length of the band would not be published but just depending on how the Club felt about the offender and if they repeated or not. Some bans are necessary to make an example because the warnings issued by Robin are falling on deaf ears. Make an announcement after someone is banned to let everyone know that actually it is not “anything goes.”
HI SomeGuy:
I appreciate your observations, We are here to provide a safe space for everyone and we do ban many people, if they don’t follow the rules.
We do go over rules with every member and have them posted in the outside and in the club and are diligent to addressing members concerns. Many members are on Fet Life and do look out for each other. We encourage people to come report any behavior that makes others uncomfortable. I’ve never not seen Robin address or my self as the manager not address behaviors that are predatory.We take them very serious.
We are seeing more and more new couples and we are going over safety, I worry when something starts with I’ am not rascist but!!
We all have a responsibility , I thank all our patrons that make an effort to come to the management with concerns. We app[erciate and thank them.
We are inclusive we do not vet for looks or age or ethnicities like some clubs might, just that everyone follows the rules.I do understand we can’t meet everyones excpetations and many leave frustrated because they are not included. I feel the best way is to talk to people and get to know them build relationships and gain trust.To say that the club is going down hill is I beleive unfair because it has only been our challenge to make sure every one respects boundaries. We have created Ladies night for over 18 months and started couples night over the last 12 months to provide mainly Women,Trans and crossdressers less of a male dominated space. So for you to say it has become worse is is untrue because we have created these days twice a month for that very reason.
As always please come to us Robin or myself .
Thank you